Why I got engaged at 19

19. Svi 2020.
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wow girlypops. Was not expecting to post this video but...here is why I got engaged at 19!!! I'm a fiancée now!
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  • if you love someone you love someone age has nothing to do with it. so happy for you

    lynden fedaklynden fedakPrije 9 sati
  • Lemme guess, you Christian?

    MargauMonteyRiberaMargauMonteyRiberaPrije 8 dana
  • The Fuck you keep talking.

    Blue Berry2aBlue Berry2aPrije 14 dana
  • i was never against this but ive never looked at it like that, especially when ppl used to get married really young. your very lucky to have found the one and know that hes the one, im happy for you!

    Roshana UthayakumarRoshana UthayakumarPrije 16 dana
  • Its really beautiful how young women like her have the confidence to talk about her fears and self improvement. love you haley. hope you have a wonderful marriage :)

    Annie SilvenyAnnie SilvenyPrije 20 dana
  • I love how you have grown and stuff I've been watching your videos for two years now and I am so happy for you both!!!! 💕💕

    Kayleigh HowardKayleigh HowardPrije 23 dana
  • I think that waiting until you're married for sex encourages people to get married young.

    Tales toTellTales toTellPrije 26 dana
  • The reason is obvious.

    Rolyn Grace BugasRolyn Grace BugasPrije mjesec
  • Beautiful personality 🚀✨

    youngboy bandityoungboy banditPrije mjesec
  • Honestly if you're financially stable early marriage isn't unreasonable at all. Divorce sucks but if it doesn't work out y'all can still eat and pay the bills yknow

    cherish_chimx2cherish_chimx2Prije mjesec
  • Engaged at 20 and will be married by 22/23

    Sophia StewartSophia StewartPrije mjesec
  • Girl all the respect for you!! Might've been scary posting but I really love this video

    Oh Beloved OneOh Beloved OnePrije mjesec
  • YEAH

    colton Quinncolton QuinnPrije mjesec
  • congrats on your engagement Haley! I am 19 and engaged too!!!! Also been asked if I am going to have kids right away, especially because of the culture in my country haha (Honduras)

    Alejandra PinedaAlejandra PinedaPrije mjesec
  • Im so happy for you.

    Lorelai GilmoreLorelai GilmorePrije mjesec
  • Congrats 🎊

    Anastasia HillAnastasia HillPrije mjesec
  • Im engaged and I'm 19 too And I know how you feel ❤im soooooo happy for you My life was not that easy too and now that I'm getting married I feel so bless Wish you all the best girl ❤

    DJ Mary hopeDJ Mary hopePrije mjesec
  • Working instead of college isn’t unconventional honestly

    Noelle PolkNoelle PolkPrije 2 mjeseci
  • Girl I was engaged AND got married at 19. (6 Month engagement) Don’t let anyone tell you what stage of life you should be in. You know your heart and you know when you’re ready. Married life is awesome. We were told, well... I was told I was too young, he’s 21. We were told we moved too fast. But we knew what we were ready for. Marriage requires sacrifice, service, and selflessness. If you can do those things, y’all can do this.

    Caitlyn DanielCaitlyn DanielPrije 2 mjeseci
  • I got engaged at 18 married at 19 🙂❤️ congratulations!!

    NaniiNaniiPrije 2 mjeseci
  • It’s funny how people are different. Hayley’s 19 and engaged and here I am at 21 still asking my mom if I can sleep at my friends house 😂. I’m asian btw, filipino to be specific, so this is normal to us.

    MarietteMariettePrije 2 mjeseci
  • my mom got engaged at 19 and she's still really happy!! It's totally okay

    McKayla StaceyMcKayla StaceyPrije 2 mjeseci
  • Honey, sweetie, sex is soooo much more than 5% of the relationship

    Zosia PiontekZosia PiontekPrije 2 mjeseci
  • Honey, sweetie, sex is soooo much more than 5% of the relationship

    Zosia PiontekZosia PiontekPrije 2 mjeseci
  • I hope it goes differently for you, but sex after getting divorced is %100 better!!!

    Noor BarsikNoor BarsikPrije 2 mjeseci
  • I'm only 22 and still single! How'd you get engaged when you're 19?!

    The WolfThe WolfPrije 2 mjeseci
  • hrworld.info/home/video/q5OaipaYnYiCgNw.html watch this omg

    Ruhama BelayRuhama BelayPrije 2 mjeseci
  • Am not a hater or anything but does anyone else think its wierd that this vedio has 2m veiws and only 15k coments

    Kayla GiannaKayla GiannaPrije 2 mjeseci
  • Haley, My fiancé proposed to me at age 19 as well so your not alone 😊 it’s the best thing ever finding the one you love this early in life 😍😍

    JessicaJessicaPrije 2 mjeseci
  • M 19 and he recently proposed....I searched proposed at 19 to see how people deal with it😂❤

    Katlego NatashaKatlego NatashaPrije 2 mjeseci
  • Congratulations and best of luck for your future

    Reena ParidaReena ParidaPrije 3 mjeseci
  • Congratulations, just found your channel and I’m 21 and I’m getting married in 3 weeks. We have been engaged for a year and a half and are both Christian and see marriage the same way. Everyone has their own opinions but it’s lovely to see how happy you are!

    Daniella EdgecumbeDaniella EdgecumbePrije 3 mjeseci
  • You're awesome & amazing!! Congrats!!!🎉🍾🎊🎈

    JulieJuliePrije 3 mjeseci
  • Congratulations on your engagement Girl!!! do what you want until you are happy

    Doshe RibeiroDoshe RibeiroPrije 3 mjeseci
  • Life is short do what know

    Jinkook KookieJinkook KookiePrije 3 mjeseci
  • I was watching her when I was 8 I am 13 turning 14 I am so happy for you😌✨

    Jinkook KookieJinkook KookiePrije 3 mjeseci
  • no no no of course not because youre a gold digger no no defentily

    Filip HallbergFilip HallbergPrije 3 mjeseci
  • Married at 20, nearly a year later and wouldn't change it for a minute! Different people live different lives, when your ready for marriage your ready, age doesn't make a difference!

    amiamiPrije 3 mjeseci
  • YESSSS I'm so excited for you!!!!!!!!!! Its a beautiful ring! And I am so excited for you and Ryans marriage! 🌟🥺❤️

    Leah Lil10Leah Lil10Prije 3 mjeseci
  • la moitié de cette vidéo est une superbe déclaration d'amour. C'est tout ce que je retiens. C'est beau

    liniage Zoéliniage ZoéPrije 3 mjeseci
  • congrats 💖💖💖🥳🥳🥳🎉🎉🎉

    Lena RubinsteinLena RubinsteinPrije 3 mjeseci
  • I met my man in 2014, moved in 3 months into our relationship, got married in 2018. I was 18 when I moved in with him.

    dabbin' darlin'dabbin' darlin'Prije 3 mjeseci
  • its like she's 18 getting married but 19 your opinion

    Harmoni BakerHarmoni BakerPrije 3 mjeseci
  • why r u getting engaged at 19? ik its ur opinion but I would wait until like 30 or 25 or something

    Harmoni BakerHarmoni BakerPrije 3 mjeseci
    • @M G cool

      Harmoni BakerHarmoni BakerPrije 2 mjeseci
    • girl this whole video is the answer to your question

      M GM GPrije 2 mjeseci
    • @Harmoni Baker yeah ❤️❤️

      Leah Lil10Leah Lil10Prije 3 mjeseci
    • @Leah Lil10 that's what I said

      Harmoni BakerHarmoni BakerPrije 3 mjeseci
    • Its her choice to do what she wants to do. ❤️

      Leah Lil10Leah Lil10Prije 3 mjeseci
  • I honestly can’t wait till a year from now and they react to this video. I’m literally UWW’ing just thinking about it

    Alana AdamsAlana AdamsPrije 3 mjeseci
  • 2:21 yea she’s totally right. My grandma got engaged when she was 17 purely because she felt bad for the guy 😂 at first she said no, but then when she realized he would end up coming to America while still being _single_ she called him back. “Do you want to marry me now?” “I guess so?” 2 months later they were wed 😂🤦‍♀️ now I’m 17 and....I’ve basically never talked to a boy 🤷‍♀️

    Maddie FishblobMaddie FishblobPrije 3 mjeseci
  • I’m jealous of how much you have your life together at only 19 like how

    LyracatLyracatPrije 3 mjeseci
  • I'm so thankful that i've came across this video. I'm 17 and I believe in chastity and every time someone finds out about that they get all confused, asking "so you're a virgin?!", "do you really think you'll find someone who'll wait?"... It's difficult to explain sometimes and it hurts to think that maybe ill never find that person, but after hearing your story i feel like i'm understood! thank you

    Leonor FalcãoLeonor FalcãoPrije 3 mjeseci
  • I'm so excited for you like I can't wait for all the WEDDING videos🥰🥰🤗

    Anna GateAnna GatePrije 3 mjeseci
  • Reminds me of my relationship ❤ i love this

    Denise GalDenise GalPrije 3 mjeseci
  • I'm 19 & I haven't even had my first kiss! 😅💁🏽‍♂️ But it's ok & it's also totally understandable to get married at 19 🙌💯❤️

    Raj DevendraRaj DevendraPrije 3 mjeseci
  • We all have our own life paths and we CHOOSE what is best for us. My advice to you, build a strong foundation for your marriage so that not even the test of time can knock it down. I wish the best of luck on your journey called life and sending blessings for a long and happy life together.

    Erika Martinez MaganaErika Martinez MaganaPrije 3 mjeseci
  • My sister and her husband just got married at 19

    HardlyEntertainingHardlyEntertainingPrije 3 mjeseci
  • I don't care about when people get married so just stop it doesn't matter when you get married.

    Asger AbrahamAsger AbrahamPrije 3 mjeseci
  • :( wanna get married at 18 but my bf says no

    your fav stalkeryour fav stalkerPrije 3 mjeseci
  • YES

    Mistakes Were MadeMistakes Were MadePrije 3 mjeseci
  • You better keep that love ten years later and not make your kids have to see their parents split.

    fartdog 64fartdog 64Prije 3 mjeseci
  • My fiancé asked for my mom and dads blessing also. I wish you all the best in your future.

    Jasmine HassellJasmine HassellPrije 3 mjeseci
  • my parents met when they were 13 and got engaged at 19 and married at 21 and they’re now 51!! honestly if you’re in love then you have got nothing to loose💕

    Claudy HClaudy HPrije 3 mjeseci
  • I got pregnant at 19, and now I’m 20 awaiting his arrival in October. And my boyfriend already plans on marrying me. Everyone has different timelines. ❤️

    Anissa AlvaradoAnissa AlvaradoPrije 3 mjeseci
    • Congrats!

      ZaczzZaczzPrije 3 mjeseci
  • Just curious, how long have you guys been together.... I'm new to your channel and I support you all the way... my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 yrs and were both 19 and currently planning our wedding as well. Overall I just want you and Ryan to know that I support you guys.

    Ariana SnyderAriana SnyderPrije 3 mjeseci
  • aaaa congrats!!!

    T SdzT SdzPrije 3 mjeseci
  • I think you are adorable and I respect your journey but I just wanted to say that you don’t need justify your young marriage by saying you’ve lived unconventional lives. Truthfully, dropping out of college/not going to college and working full time is very very common and doesn’t necessarily mean your life isn’t like most peoples. Yes, your career is unconventional but I just wanted to say that a lot of people are on the same journey as you! You’re already so confident and excited so don’t focus on comparing yourself to others!

    Charlotte ElsasserCharlotte ElsasserPrije 3 mjeseci
  • Congratulations but are you sure if you're than go ahead.

    Alia HassanAlia HassanPrije 3 mjeseci
  • When you consider that there is no societal pressure (save a few cultural/traditional exceptions) pushing young couples to get married (no one is saying "you have to") I think we need to greatly respect when someone young takes on the commitment of marriage. The irony is that naysayers often attack that person's maturity when, if marriage is a means to maturity, as I argue it is, this is actually a sign of greater maturity!

    We McLaughlinsWe McLaughlinsPrije 3 mjeseci
  • My grandma had my dad at seventeen or eighteen. Her and my grandpa weren’t planning it but I still think about how successful my dad is. If they didn’t have him I wouldn’t be here. And he turned out really well lol.

    Payton StarkPayton StarkPrije 4 mjeseci
  • my family friend got married at 18 so this is perfectly fine

    Olivia LyonsOlivia LyonsPrije 4 mjeseci
  • Dudeeee whose ready for the “ how I lost my v-card “ story time. ^^^

    Riley CrossRiley CrossPrije 4 mjeseci
    • She’s not gonna be the relatable virgin pretty soon 😂

      ZaczzZaczzPrije 3 mjeseci
  • Congratulations Haley!! I’ve been subscribed to you since your dancing days. Marriage is awesome. I got married 7 weeks ago at 20. 💛

    Yamileth ContrerasYamileth ContrerasPrije 4 mjeseci
  • Congratulations 🥳

    Logic_RageLogic_RagePrije 4 mjeseci
  • Just another Christian couple getting engaged while they are teenagers so they can bang 😂🥀

    Kay KKay KPrije 4 mjeseci
  • Dude by 19 I had my son. With my boyfriend to which I’ve been with for 6 years! I’m basically married. Yesss! When you know you know 💕

    M pM pPrije 4 mjeseci
  • Wooooow. All the best! Love the spirit. Just recently got engaged too! 😍🥰 i just made a vlog about my realizations 🥰

    Gea BadellesGea BadellesPrije 4 mjeseci
  • i.....honestly can’t wait for this to crash n burn

    yailene leyvayailene leyvaPrije 4 mjeseci
  • I don’t really think ur lifestyle is really unique or super different bc like where I grew up or like in Europe it’s not a must or the natural norm of a life to go to college after high school. So many ppl start working after high school so I don’t get that argument for getting married young but as you said it has a lot to do where you grew up and like cultural reasons. But like the reason many ppl are probably shocked is bc ppl change so much as a person in like their teens and twenties and therefore it’s nearly impossible to know if you met the person you want to be with for the rest of your days like as you said it’s something you shouldn’t take lightly and divorce ain’t an actual option. For example you loose and gain friends too bc you might feel like it’s not the same anymore and your just not vibing with each other like u used to bc ppl change and at such a young age ur still trying to find out who u really are. I thought I knew who i was when I was 18 but I changed so much in 3 years like I see and prioritise things sooo differently now it’s crazy. That might be why ppl question u or are surprised and of course it could be different for you but idk it just seems like a big risk.. even more if divorce is not an option for you.

    a girl has no name _a girl has no name _Prije 4 mjeseci
    • Depends which European country you’re from, in the U.K. it’s the cultural norm to go to university and most people are getting married in their late 20s/30s.

      Simply miaSimply miaPrije mjesec
  • I’m so happy for you 💗 congrats beautiful!

    Willow VargasWillow VargasPrije 4 mjeseci
  • Girl all for you following your heart here, HOWEVER please do not see divorce as “not an option”. Sometimes divorce is the answer and no one should keep themselves in a toxic situation because they have an aversion to divorce. I am of course not implying that this is now or ever will be toxic, but forever is a long time and things can change. Just never say never.

    Izzi SpiridigliozziIzzi SpiridigliozziPrije 4 mjeseci
    • yesssss! I used to think the same way as her but it's true, all relationships have the potential to become toxic. (I'm getting married very young as well at 20 and I recognize that it could end in divorce. That's just life.)

      cherish_chimx2cherish_chimx2Prije mjesec
    • @SuperTRev ooook i see now, you're just a straight up intolerant bigot

      Izzi SpiridigliozziIzzi SpiridigliozziPrije 3 mjeseci
    • @SuperTRev marriage is far more than a christian institution. it is the merging of lives. just because something used to be illegal doesn't mean anything, it used to be illegal for women to vote..times change. and you are acting like divorce is something an "evil women does to hurt a man." divorce is a mutual decision that two adults would come to an agreement upon. you are so clearly victimizing men here. there is nothing immoral about two people making a decision that is right for them, lets not hide your bigotry behind religion here. and furthermore, i am not a divorce advocate, i hope its something i never have to go through, but it is a part of life for some people and that doesn't make them immortal, a snake, or an evil person.

      Izzi SpiridigliozziIzzi SpiridigliozziPrije 3 mjeseci
    • @SuperTRev or that i recognize that there is the possibly of somebody hurting me, even if i have done everything i can to make a marriage work. and in that situation, i acknowledge that i can make a choice to end said marriage. marriage takes two people and people change over time, hopefully you chance together but "forever" is a long time and people are very different at 50 then they were at 19.

      Izzi SpiridigliozziIzzi SpiridigliozziPrije 3 mjeseci
  • I've been watching her since elementary school and honestly, she's very inspirational and I am so happy for her, she is like an older sister that I never had.

    Sreehitha YSreehitha YPrije 4 mjeseci
  • I would have gladly gotten married at 18 or 19 but my partner and i just didn't have the financial means to celebrate the way we wanted. That's honestly why most people don't, and anyone who has something to say about those who do are just bitter or jealous. don't mean those who wish to live differently or don't plan on getting married because those people who are genuinely "good" would have nothing negative to say. I'm 21 and can't wait to get married, but I am already committed and on the same page as my partner abut what we want. We just have to wait to celebrate our love the way we want because of the capitalistic world we live in. I don't agree with some things you have said or some beliefs you hold, but I hope i can give you extra comfort in the fact that you are aking the right choice for you and will have immense happiness and "success" in your own eyes and the world"s. :)

    Missnataliepaige lMissnataliepaige lPrije 4 mjeseci
  • Congrats girlie pop 🥳

    lil death punklil death punkPrije 4 mjeseci
  • When you find love, you know it, so why not be together for life from the start. Enjoy the journey. All the best

    Susan BowesSusan BowesPrije 4 mjeseci
  • It's been such a wonderful road to watch you from 4 years ago to now 😭 I'm so proud of you and all you've achieved, and congratulations on this new part of your life and this new and wonderful journey that you are embarking on. Ryan is a really wonderful and fantastic person, and I'm so happy for you both! Congratulations from South Africa

    Anne WhippAnne WhippPrije 4 mjeseci
  • shes talking at super speed

    scuffed gamer47scuffed gamer47Prije 4 mjeseci
  • This is so amazing❤️ love this video so much!

    Inés Herranz AlonsoInés Herranz AlonsoPrije 4 mjeseci
  • I'm HONESTLY so so SO proud and so so SO EXCITED for uguys I hope that this next chapter in ur guys life is filled with MUCH JOY HAPPINESS and BLESSINGS for the both of you and that uguys keep getting blessed with much HAPPINESS and BLESSINGS I'm TRULY EXCITED to see what is in ur guys future

    Alicia SalasAlicia SalasPrije 4 mjeseci
  • you're amazing!!! I'm so happy for y'all. My brother and I were so excited when the engagement video came out. we've both been watching y'all for a long time, and this was such a cool moment for us. love y'all so much! ❤️

    yoshimi petshopsyoshimi petshopsPrije 4 mjeseci
  • Yaaassss , I was waiting for that , and when the notification arrived ! I wassss sssoooo happy!!!!!!!! Congratulations

    Lyna AchacheLyna AchachePrije 4 mjeseci
  • Sex is definitively NOT only 5% of a relationship L.O.L.

    Puty0urlipstick0nPuty0urlipstick0nPrije 4 mjeseci
    • It's literally different for everyone and for every relationship. For my current relationship I'd say it's 15%. Past relationship it was 80% and that shit hit the fan pretty fast

      cherish_chimx2cherish_chimx2Prije mjesec
    • @Siannon's more like 50%

      Puty0urlipstick0nPuty0urlipstick0nPrije 2 mjeseci
    • 2%

      Siannon'sSiannon'sPrije 2 mjeseci
  • I've been subscribed for so long, and you seem just so genuinely happy around each other, bless you and congratulations!

    Valeria BigottValeria BigottPrije 4 mjeseci
  • Congratulations y’all 🥳❤️❤️

    De’Sandra OshayDe’Sandra OshayPrije 4 mjeseci
  • My husband and I got engaged at 16, married at 17, now I'm 19 and we're expecting our first baby. So when people tell you that you're moving TOO fast, I've heard ALL of it. My husband also asked both my parents for their blessing. He took them out to dinner and all I know is my dad did not hesitate and said "hell yeah!" Also, Congratulations Haley ❤ I've been watching you and Ryan since you started dating. It's been such a beautiful relationship and so fun to watch. I wish you both the best, long and happy marriage!

    Vanessa MarieVanessa MariePrije 4 mjeseci
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    Nina DragcevicNina DragcevicPrije 4 mjeseci
  • I got married at 19 and still am married 7 years later with a second baby on the way!! Def don’t let what others say doubt anything. You know what you guys want, I’m happy for both of you!! 💜

    Tania RamirezTania RamirezPrije 4 mjeseci
  • my parents dated for about 9 years before they got married and girl...i could never! i don't judge them for getting married so "late," that was their choice. and i don't judge you for getting married so "early," that's your choice. i'm happy that you and ryan are ready to take this important step in your lives together. i feel like a proud mother. i love you both. and congradulations!

    ChloeChloePrije 4 mjeseci
  • Wow it was refreshing to hear she was waiting for marriage. I am too and have seen multiple videos where people one fun at us "conservative christians". It was just nice to see

    Laelle TuggyLaelle TuggyPrije 4 mjeseci
  • I got engaged at 19 too so this is so nice to see someone else like that too

    Chelsea LoydChelsea LoydPrije 4 mjeseci
  • Married at 19? Kinda young if you ask me

    ATV JeremyATV JeremyPrije 4 mjeseci
    • It is young however everyone is ready at their own timing. If you know Haley she is very mature. It’s better than them messing around with each other and their emotions.

      Random PersonRandom PersonPrije 4 mjeseci
    • @bee obviously

      Casia-Jade TakaiCasia-Jade TakaiPrije 4 mjeseci
    • You obviously didn't even watch the video honey.

      beebeePrije 4 mjeseci
  • You guys are both put together and have good heads on your shoulders. I've been watching you for s long time and I'm proud of you. Congratulations on your engagement Haley

    Annmarie GomesAnnmarie GomesPrije 4 mjeseci
  • Girlllll you called me Single in 26 languages

    blithxsomeblithxsomePrije 4 mjeseci
  • My parents got married at 19 and they just celebrated their 25th anniversary so don’t stress don’t worry God timing is always right

    Emily CepedaEmily CepedaPrije 4 mjeseci